Online dating can be exciting, but it can also be overwhelming. Frustration can set in if you’re meeting people but not connecting with them. Or maybe you meet someone and start to catch feelings when they ghost you and leave you questioning everything that you thought you believed about relationships. You may have wondered at some point, what would a love psychic tell me to do?
Love and romance are among the most popular areas that psychics get questions about. However, psychics say that you can look to your own intuition to tune into a potential relationship. Here are some psychic-vetted strategies for doing so.
Meet face to face
Having someone text you ‘good morning beautiful’ every day may be cute. But it’s more difficult to pick up psychic impressions via digital communication. (Yet another reason to disconnect from Facebook). Unless your psychic muscles are particularly strong, the subtle nuances often don’t come through.
So forget about the advice to get to know people and weed them out via text and email. One of the best things you can do when you meet someone online who is interesting to you is to meet in person as soon as you can, psychic Davida Rappaport told Bustle. You may feel physical sensations when you meet that give you psychic impressions. I’m not talking about attraction or lust; rather, the instant sense that we like or dislike someone that we typically get when we honor our gut instincts.
Meditate before your date
You’re excited because you are finally going on your first date. You may have butterflies in your stomach or be a little anxious. That’s perfectly normal. However, anxiety may block your intuition, as well as your clarity and that can leave you at a disadvantage. Without your natural psychic senses flowing, you can waste time dating someone who you know is not a good fit.
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One way to clear your mind and chase away the anxiety is to meditate before going out on a date, Rappaport said. You’ll be calmer and more likely to pick up on accurate psychic impressions. If someone is sending mixed messages, set the intention before you go into meditation to receive relationship clarity.
Wear light colors on a date
So here’s an interesting tip. According to love psychic Deborah Graham, author of Get Your Head Out of Your App: A Psychic’s Guide to Attracting and Keeping True Love, your wardrobe can affect your intuitive abilities. Some days, you may glean more insights than others. Could the difference be a matter of what you’re wearing?
The color black blocks our energy, while light colors leave us more open to the energy of others, Graham said. So if you choose to heed this advice, forget about wearing black on that first date; wear light clothing so you are better able to sense the energy of your date.
Tune in with crystals
Another tip from Graham is to use crystals to your advantage — in particular a piece of crystal quartz. “Clear crystal quartz helps to open the mind and the heart to higher guidance and enhances clarity,” Graham told Bustle. She suggests carrying crystal quartz with you on a date.
Clear crystal quartz is always good to have around in general because it can also amplify the natural properties of other crystals including rose quartz, which is often carried to attract love.
Ask for — and expect — signs
The most questions you ask, the more psychic answers you will get. If you want to know something, ask the Universe to send you a sign and then look for it, love psychic Caroline E. Zani told Bustle. If you want to know about a certain dating prospect, start the day off asking for signs about his or her intentions. Then see what happens during the day.
Maybe you hear a song on the radio that gives you your answer. You may be privy to a random conversation that gives you some insight. Be open to the fact that you may not like the answer. Understand that even if things don’t go your way, you’re better off knowing and allowing the Universe to create a better situation.
The other thing you can do is ask a love psychic about your specific situation. Sometimes we’re too close to a situation and need more objective guidance. If you’re feeling confused and anxious, this might be the best route to take.
Love and romance don’t have to be a chore. By taking heed the advice of love psychics, you may have a more fulfilling and enlightening ride.