Are you ready to meet your twin flame? If you are, you’re clearly not alone, as there are countless web sites and forums dedicated to the topic of finding twin flames, chasing twin flames and everything else pertaining to the topic.
The good news is it is inevitable that you will come upon your twin flame at some point in your evolution — even if it is in another lifetime. However, what do you do if you want to attract your twin flame fast? Do you have any say over the matter?
There are different schools of thought about that. I tend to think that certain events in our lives are destined to occur, but when they occur depends on our choices. Your twin flame will always come when you are ready for that experience; however, how long it takes you to become ready is up to you.
What is a twin flame
First it is important to understand the concept of what a twin flame is, and why a twin flame experience can be so valuable.
I like to think of a twin flame as somewhat of a mirror to your soul. In fact, your twin flame shares the same soul as you. It is believed that twin flames are portions of the same soul who have been separated and they incarnate in separate bodies and lifetimes.
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It is believed that at some point twin flames will come together again. They may meet up and share portions of certain lifetimes, and one day they will unite forever once they have completed learning all that they are meant to learn separately.
Sometimes people confuse a twin flame with a regular soulmate or even a false twin flame. (You can learn what a false twin flame is here.)
A twin flame relationship is bound to be intense
One of the hallmark characteristics of a twin flame relationship is that it is likely to be intense. You know those relationships where you meet someone and you instantly feel like you have known them forever? They tend to be more intense than regular soulmate relationships, which can be intense themselves.
Twin flame relationships often have a lot of ups and downs. It’s not unusual for one twin flame to run away from the relationship. They tend to be referred to as twin flame runners. Not surprisingly, the twin flame that does the chasing is often known as a twin flame chaser.
When you embark on a relationship with a twin flame, prepare to be on a roller coaster, and expect to learn major lessons that will help your soul to evolve.
How to let the Universe know you are ready now
There are signals we can give the Universe to make it known that we are ready to have a certain experience. Life is a co-creative process, meaning we work with our higher self to learn and evolve at a pace that is comfortable for us.
If you feel strongly that now is the time to meet your twin flame, there’s a good chance that you’re picking up on the fact that a twin flame experience is important in this lifetime. However, there may be certain experiences you have yet to have that can better prepare you. Here’s how to potentially move things along:
Set the intention of meeting your twin flame
One of the most important steps you can take when you want to achieve any goal is setting the intention to do so. I believe intention is the most powerful force on the planet, second only to love.
How you set the intention is up to you, but I suggest performing a ritual around it. Some suggestions for rituals:
- Write it down
- Create a vision board
- Go into prayer or meditation and tell your Spirit Guides about the intention
End relationships that aren’t going anywhere
Here’s some motivation for those of you hanging on to a relationship that is not going anywhere: Doing so can block your soulmate or even your twin flame.
Sure it won’t block your twin flame forever — what’s meant for you will be yours. But you could be putting off your twin flame’s appearance in your life because your energy is being taken up by a relationship that you already know is not for you. If you really want to attract your twin flame fast, it might even be a good idea to make sure you cut any psychic cords with needy friends or romantic partners that no longer serve you. (Here’s how to cut psychic cords.)
Twin flame relationships often take up a lot of our energy and people often report meeting a twin flame not long after ending other relationships that are not working for them.
Show a lot of love to yourself
Did you ever notice that when you are in a good place in your life, other good things just seem to happen? When you are taking care of yourself and loving your life, opportunities come and you attract more good.
That same principle can help you to attract your twin flame fast. By taking your focus off of the idea (after you’ve set the intention) and focusing on yourself instead, you’ll likely find that your life tends to pick up and surprise in you certain ways.
What you do specifically is up to you. Simply find something you enjoy and do more of that, whether it’s reading a cozy mystery, binge-watching your favorite show or going for a long walk in the park.