If you’ve ever met one of your soulmates, you’re likely familiar with that feeling of instant connection. Whether you have a strong like or dislike for the person (enemies can be soulmates too), chances are it was immediate. But if that connection is so strong, is it possible to feel your soulmate before you meet? The answer is, sometimes, yes. If you are intuitive, you may be able to sense that someone important is getting ready to enter your life.
Most people dream of one day meeting their soulmate. In reality, we have more than one soulmate so we can look forward to meeting multiple soulmates in our lifetimes. However, most people are thinking about romantic soulmates when they talk about this phenomenon.
The truth is soulmates are all of those souls who come from the same soul group that we come from. Our soulmates tend to incarnate with us in life after life and they often help us to evolve. Sometimes in between lives, we’ll form soul contracts with soulmates in which we agree to help each other learn certain lessons. While we typically don’t remember these contracts during our day-to-day lives, we have strong connections to those we have contracts with, and our experiences with them may even be painful since pain can be a great teacher.
As soulmates, we often have telepathic connections
The truth is, we are in touch with our soulmates telepathically all of our lives. The stronger your telepathic skills, the more likely you will be conscious of this communication.
There is some anecdotal evidence that we are in touch with our soulmates before we meet them. Some people who have met their soulmates say that they knew their soulmate was coming because they could simply feel him or her in the weeks before their actual meeting. I’ve heard folks say they knew a new romantic partnership was headed their way. In other cases, I’ve heard people say they had a feeling that something important was going to happen soon before a soulmate entered their life.
Some people even identified a certain location or event that was coming up and had a strong instinct that their soulmate would be there. There are stories of people who knew they would meet their soulmate at a certain coffee shop, for example, and they had the desire to go to the coffee shop until they met their soulmates. Others talk about having a sudden impulse to go to a certain restaurant or social event even though it was out of character for them, and that was where they ended up meeting their soulmate.
Some people find themselves making changes in their lives right before they meet their soulmates. They don’t realize until after the fact that the actions they took were literally preparing them for the changes that would occur in their lives once their soulmate showed up.
Some even believe that there are steps we can take to make it more likely that we’ll meet our soulmates soon.
How to strengthen that soulmate connection before you meet them
The good news is there are things we can do to strengthen our connection with soulmates even before we meet. Remember, we’re already connected. The soulmate connection lasts from life to life so on some level you’re already very familiar with a soulmate’s energy. Here are some ways to strengthen the connection.
Start talking to your soulmate now.
One key piece of advice that many Law of Attraction practitioners give about attracting a romantic soulmate is to start talking to your soulmate in your mind even before you have met. Tell your soulmate about your day or share what you would share if they literally were in your life.
The idea behind that piece of advice is that we are already capable of connecting telepathically with that person and we are strengthening the bond and drawing the person to us through the conscious conversation. Of course this doesn’t just work with romantic soulmates. You can do this with other soulmates who you’d like to enter your life too. Remember our soulmates typically bring growth and healing into our lives, which help us to evolve.
Pay attention to your dreams.
Can you feel your soulmate in your dreams? Some people dream about their soulmates — in their dreams they describe feeling a remarkable sense of love and peace and acceptance surrounding this person even if the person seems to be a stranger. In fact, dreams about your soulmate might start picking up in frequency the closer it gets to the time of your meeting. This actually happened to me. I dreamt about a soulmate for years before I met him. His presence had a unique feeling to my energetic field. I started dreaming about him more often the closer it was to the time that we would meet, and when I met him, I recognized the way that he felt to me energetically from the dream.
Follow your hunches and impulses.
If you believe your soulmate is on the way, don’t discount that feeling. Can you feel your soulmate? Keep telling yourself, yes! Embrace that feeling and start preparing for your soulmate mentally, spiritually and physically.
Let go of bad relationships.
The Universe abhors a vacuum. When you let go of something, you free up room for someone else. If there are so many people crowded into your life, there might literally not be enough room energetically for new soulmates to enter. If you are currently in a relationship that you know is not good for you or if you have toxic friendships, don’t be afraid to let those relationships go so you can allow new soulmates to come in. If you’re crowding your emotional and physical space with the wrong people, there is no room for your soulmates to enter your life. Your soulmates will move toward you when there is a void that gives them room to move into your life.
Seek spiritual help.
If you are unsure about whether the person you are with is your soulmate or not, you can meditate and ask your Spirit Guide for guidance. Or you can contact a psychic or spiritual counselor. When I’m uncertain, before I do anything, I set the intuition that I be led to someone who will have me discover the answers I need.
If you have friends who are interested in metaphysics and psychic ability, they may be able to recommend a psychic for you to go to. Ask them if they’ve had a particularly good reading.
If you don’t know anyone to go to in person, you can try an online psychic. I personally like to either get a recommendation or see someone in action before I spend money on a reading. Oranum lets you chat with a psychic for free so you can get a feel for whether you like the person’s energy before you decide on paying for a reading.
Simply join Oranum for free, and then you can see what psychic you feel drawn to.
Before any reading, there are a couple of things you should keep in mind.
- You’ll get better results if you calm your mind and take a few deep breaths before your reading.
- Set the intention that you’ll get the answers that you need.
- Also, have a pad of paper nearby so you can jot down notes. The psychic may tell you something that doesn’t make sense today but it may make sense tomorrow.
You are meant to connect with all of your soulmates (yes you have more than one) and the Universe will give you the signs you need to do so if you are willing to be open to it. Can you feel your soulmate before you meet? Yes!