There are many reasons why you might want to communicate with an ex.
- You might be wondering if it’s really over.
- You might want to apologize for something you did.
- You might just want to say ‘I forgive you,’ as a way of getting closure.
- You may want to finally stand up for yourself after being treated like a doormat.
Whatever the reason you might want to get back in touch with an ex, talking face to face isn’t the only option you have. In fact, often talking face to face is not a good option. If you’re trying to move on, a face to face conversation might set you back. It might bring up all kinds of emotions that you don’t want to deal with, or it could encourage your ex to pursue you again if that’s not what you want. So luckily there is an alternative. You can also communicate with an ex using telepathy.
What is telepathy?
Telepathy is the ability to communicate with someone mind to mind. It works two ways: When both parties are in sync, you may be able to receive messages from someone mentally. You also may be able to use telepathy to send messages to others. With practice and intention, you can learn how to pick up on certain thoughts and share your own thoughts when both parties’ mental defenses are down.
Why would you want to do this with an ex? Sometimes people need to get something off their chests to an ex before they are able to move onto another relationship. Say your ex has hurt you deeply and it has impacted your ability to trust someone new. If you have a conversation with your ex and tell him or her these things, it might help you to put the past behind you and finally move on.
Another reason you might want to communicate with an ex is to apologize for something you have done in the relationship. Sometimes we regret things we did in the past or recognize that our past karma is coming back to haunt us and it would be a good idea to make amends. Communicating with an ex to do that can be a helpful thing.
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Why face to face communication may not be possible
While you may want to communicate with an ex, there are a number of reasons why it might not be possible to do so face to face.
You might not be in contact with one another.
Sometimes we don’t even know where an ex is, let alonehow to reach him or her.
The ex may not be open to speaking to you.
Sometimes when relationships end, one or both parties cuts off the other. If your ex won’t speak to you, you won’t be able to have a conversation face to face or via telephone, email or Skype.
The ex may not be alive.
If your ex is no longer living, you may believe communicating your thoughts is impossible. If you’ve ever visited a medium, you likely know that that is not true. A medium can help you to communicate with your loved ones who have passed away.
You also may be able to send a message to someone you love who has passed away using telepathy.
You may not feel comfortable.
Maybe you simply don’t feel comfortable opening up a dialog in person or via telephone, email or Skype. You might prefer to stay away from your ex while getting things off of your chest at the same time.
How to communicate with an ex telepathically
So how do you communicate with an ex telepathically?
- First of all, you have to believe that it is possible. Know that you and your ex have a connection that transcends the physical so you are able to communicate in supernatural ways. If you don’t believe that you can communicate telepathically, your conscious mind is going to block you from having successful results.
2. Take a few deep breaths and get into a meditative state. Meditation helps you to clear your mind and move beyond the limitations of your conscious mind. If you meditate regularly, you may have an easier time. But don’t worry, you can still do it even if you’re not a master meditator.
3. Visualize you and your ex in a calm and peaceful setting. Imagine that there is no tension, and both of you are open and willing to take part in this interaction. In reality, when you communicate with your ex telepathically, the dialog will be taking place between your higher self and your ex’s higher self so this visualization is, in fact, accurate since your higher selves are open to a healing conversation.
4. Then, in the visualization, say what you want to say. When you’re done, relax your mind and see if any thoughts or feelings come to you. You may hear in your mind what you think your ex would say. Pay attention to what comes through. If your gut tells you this is your ex’s response, trust that.
5. Close out the visualization by thanking your ex in your mind for listening and freeing your ex to do whatever he or she wants with the information. Then visualize you and your ex departing. Open your eyes and know that the message that you had to give was received by your ex on some level, whether it is conscious to your ex or not.
You’ve sent a telepathic message. Now what?
Once you’ve sent a message telepathically, you might feel the urge to do something. I recommend waiting and being still. Prayer and meditation work. They help you to be in tune with your higher self and when you pray and meditate regularly, you’re more likely to know what to do.
You might also set the intention to get answers in your dreams. Before you go to sleep set the intention that you get an answer to the question of what you should do next in your dreams. When you wake up, write down what answers you get or have a recorder near your bed to record your first impressions.
If you get psychic guidance that you should do more as far as your ex is concerned, then follow it. But if not, be still and allow things to unfold. If you’re particularly confused, you can always try reaching out to a psychic. If you have metaphysical friends, ask around for a recommendation.
If you don’t know anyone to go to in person, you can try an online psychic. I personally like to either get a recommendation or see someone in action before I spend money on a reading. Oranum lets you chat with a psychic for free so you can get a feel for whether you like the person’s energy before you decide on paying for a reading.
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Ask the psychic what he or she believes you should do as far as your ex is concerned. You may get an answer or at the very least a little clarity.