How Past Life Memories Can Affect Your Relationships
When you have challenges in your relationships with others, it’s common to look to your childhood to see if there was a childhood trauma that is subconsciously affecting the way you relate to people. While that may very well be the case, there is another possible culprit that is sabotaging the way that you relate to others: your past life memories.
When you look back over your life, chances are the events that meant the most to you had to do with relationships you had with others. It could be relationships with significant others, soulmates, parents, friends, siblings – you name it. Just as relationships are at the heart of this lifetime, you can best believe that relationships were at the heart of your past lives too. And the thing about past lives: we tend to reincarnate with the same souls over and over again.
Say you lived a past life and had a very contentious relationship with someone. You may have betrayed this person; or they may have betrayed you. Maybe you were in love with this person and the love was unreturned. If there are unresolved feelings between you and this other soul, there is a good chance that the two of you may reincarnate together to continue to relate with one another until those feelings are resolved.
Think about people you meet who you have a connection with that you just can’t explain. You may have an intense dislike for this person even though you just met them or barely know them. Don’t just write off those feelings. You could be intuitively picking up something negative about the person or you can be picking up on the fact that you already have a past life history with this person.
How to explore past life memories
So what should you do if you pick up on intense energy with someone that you can’t explain? There are a number of ways to learn more about the relationship.
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You can meditate on it. One of the most powerful ways to get to know yourself is through meditation. While it may seem like you’re not doing anything, when you commit to meditating regularly, you will begin to be more intuitive, perceptive and insightful about the world around you. You can also set an intention to get psychic information about a certain subject before going into meditation. Set the intention to get more insight into this person and why you feel such a strong connection; then trust the information that you receive.
You can have a past life regression. There are professionals who can take you back to your past lives through hypnosis. Consider visiting one and having a past life regression done. They may be able to help you remember who this person was in a past life and whether you have some unfinished business together.
You can try automatic writing. One way to get in touch with our psychic sides is to employ the art of automatic writing. Here is some more information about automatic writing, but basically it is the act of writing and allowing your higher self to come through and take charge of the pen rather than your logical mind. If you want to explore past life memories, you might use your non-dominant hand, and set the intention to explore the relationship that you have with this person.